"My son went to watch a cricket match, played between the local teams on January 6th 1990. He went missing since then. He was 24 year-old. He was a labourer. He was the bread winner of the family. We are suffering a lot after he disappeared. I do not even have his death certificate. Because I am unable to get it. I am blind. I do not have money to buy a pair of spectacles", says Hapuruge Dili Nona (66) of Rathawaduna, Gampaha